100 ways to become a
better version
of yourself
"Make
the most of yourself… for that is
all there is of you." --Ralph Waldo
Emerson
There are so many ways to improve your personality…. We’re our own worst enemies when it comes to achieving success, chasing our dreams, and living a
life with passion and purpose. Everyone deserves to live out his or her dreams and have a positive impact on the world
1.
Start from the beginning. Do not make
shortcuts. There is no miraculous shortcut to the better version of
yourself
2.
Be humble. Humility is the
birthplace of all success.
3.
Embrace changes as well as failures. Be Open to Change. Change is
the only way to grow and progress into the person you want to become.
4.
Acceptance. Accept that your
goals and values may change over time.
5.
Be willing to change.
6.
Do not be afraid of failures and rejections. Boldly pursue your dreams.
7.
Believe in yourself. Own it. Own who you are. When becoming our best, we first have to
believe that becoming better is in our full control.
8.
Dream and set goal. Have target in a
timely manner.
9.
Go outside of your comfort zone. Stretch yourself. Go a step or two farther
than you think you can. Push yourself a bit into the discomfort zone. Do this regularly,
and you'll be amazed at your capacity for greatness. Breath into the stretch
and enjoy it.
10.
Practice positive thinking.
11.
Determine your values. These
will be the core beliefs that shape who you are as a person, and how you live your
life.
12.
Exercise in the morning. It will help you to
have a good day. It makes a person more focused and relaxed
throughout the day. Give your body the proper fuel to feel your best so you can enjoy
every moment to the fullest.
13.
Enjoy every moment
14.
Put pictures of your dreams or the things you
want to achieve in the place you will always be reminded like in your bedrooms
or even in your comfort room/toilet.
15.
Don’t hold back
16.
Be Coachable. Find a
mentor and be open to learn.
17.
Do not afraid success
18.
Have a good heart. Nice
people finish first in life and achieve more
than those who are selfish and bitter with the world. Practice self-compassion.
19.
Be responsible
20.
Stop Being an angry person. Many people let anger and rage alter their decision-making skills.
21.
Be beautiful and clean. Do not end your
day without taking a bath.
22.
Forgive yourself. Whatever it is, put it in a red balloon
and release it. There’s peace and freedom in forgiving.
23.
Examine your routines. Monotonous routines
can keep us stuck in reactive or avoidant patterns of behavior. Finding ways to break out of your
habits can also bring you into contact with diverse people who can change your
perspective on life.
24.
Forgive
others. Take time to
meditate,
and give thanks for the wisdom and knowledge gained from your suffering.
Practice the mantra, 'I forgive
you and I release
you.'"
25.
Give your 100% commitment
26.
Be true to others. Be
Honest and Direct. Learn to articulate
your thoughts, feelings, and ideas in an open and honest manner.
27.
Be true to yourself
28.
Examine your behavior thoroughly
and honestly. Think of how you react to
stress, how you cope with loss, how you manage your anger and how you treat people. You have to
understand how you are now
before you can understand how to grow.
29.
Count your blessings.
Spend a few minutes in gratitude every day. Remind yourself of even the
smallest blessings in your life.
Gratitude is more than a feeling; it’s an active
practice. Cultivating an “attitude of gratitude” can make you a more positive, happier, healthier person.
30.
Focus. Savor
it. Roll around in it. Love it. Even if it's pain. There is beauty even in
pain. Don't struggle against or wish for something more.
31.
Do not put yourself into debt
32.
Never give up.
33.
Heal. When you are wounded, where you are hurt, where
you are frightened — seek healing.
Restore yourself. Get well again. Do what must be done to heal. You can't be
the best version of yourself when you
are emotionally, mentally, or physically unwell.
34.
Find your passion. Look what is your heart
desires. Do what you love. Doing things that are meaningful to you will help you feel happier
and fulfilled.
35.
Cultivate empathy. It’s about imagining what it is like to
experience life as they do, to think what they think, to feel what they feel.
Then, you will able to understand
a person.
36.Read
books
37.
Experiment with life.
38.
Enjoy life and experiences. Experiences stay in your memory and create
residual happy feelings. Put your efforts and income more on experiences than
on things. Give yourself a mental and physical recess, a time for play and
creative introspection.
39.
Create network. Get in touch
with influential and powerful people.
40.
Be fit
and healthy. Your body is beautiful
and miraculous. Support your body as it serves you by staying fit and healthy.
41.
Limit stress and don’t create stress at all. Remove yourself from stresses and demands
to clear your mind for new ideas, inspiration, and recharging.
42.
Accept you won’t please everyone. Stop people
pleasing
44.
Be comfortable in every decision you make but make
sure to be responsible the price you have pay with your decisions.
45.
Do not jealous nor selfish. It will eat you up. Work on controlling your intentions and jealousy. It will make someone
having difficult
time finding happiness.
46.
Learn to prioritize. Choose what is most important right now and gently release all
else for another time or for good.
47.
Stop criticizing and judging others
48.
Eliminate all negative energy. Stop throwing buckets of negative energy out into the universe
yourself
49.
Strengthen your faith. Pray
50.
Celebrate
the small wins. Every step
along the path, every stage of life, every small action should be savored and
celebrated
51.
Stop procrastination.
52.
Mindfulness
meditation can be a good place to start.
53.
Be consistent. Each
action step along the way to your vision
is a microcosm of the outcome.
54.
Be friendly at all times. Practice random acts of kindness every
day.
55.
Simplify your life, your
thoughts, your relationships.
Give yourself the space and energy to focus and love the moment.
56.
Stop the negative self-talks and thoughts with
irrational ideas that are merely negative. Like “I cannot do that.” Or “I don’t
deserve it.”
57.
Set motto in life.
58.
Take notice of how your
behavior impacts others.
59.
Learn to shift. There are times that someone will experience tedious, boring, or even
painful moments. Rather than resisting or struggling against these times,
breathe into them. Shift your thinking so that you become aware of even the
smallest value these moments add to your experience of life.
60.
Enhance attitude. Admit if you have
mistaken and make sure to learn from it.
61.
Explore your talents.
62.
Show up and be exposed.
63.
Have a planner. When
you have a vision for yourself, you need a plan for materializing this vision.
You need action steps. Prioritize your vision and create a strategy for action.
Break it down into small steps that are manageable. Make you actions precise and smart.
64.
Do not stop learning. Keep on learning new
knowledge and skills. Stop
pretending to know things you don’t know. Educate Yourself. Life is a constant exercise in
self-improvement.
65.
Recognize
the opportunity at hand
66.
Write
on Medium. Translating your thoughts into written narratives pushes you
to think about the ideas in your head at a much deeper level. It needs to be an
active, reflective activity.
67.
There is no set model or map of life for human beings. We always have a choice. We have options and, in most instances, the
freedom to craft ourselves based on individual interests, skills and
motivations
69.
Accept
help from other people. Don’t let your pride get
in the way. Most successful people needed help along the way, too.
70.
Have
time for yourself alone to think and reflect. Nothing
makes a goal fail faster than not keeping yourself accountable. It’s all well
and good to say you’ll wake up half an hour earlier every day, but if you’re
not checking in on yourself, you’ll probably start hitting the snooze button
again before you know it.
71.
Let Go of Anger.
72.
Break the norm. Start trying
different things. Make a list of productivity tips you’ve read about or
friends’ behaviors you’ve been wanting to try, and challenge yourself to do
things differently.
73.
Trust
yourself…you know more than you think you do
74.
Don't Show Up
Empty-handed.
75.
Every
human being is completely unique. We, as human beings, are unique individuals and we must
remain mindful of that fact as we live our lives. Your life is yours; my life
is mine; and so on for
each individual.
76.
Stay
open to all possibilities with eager expectation.
77.
Don't Make
Excuses. Own your mistakes and learn from them
78.
Listen to
Others. As Jeet Banerjee notes on
Lifehack, "listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the
greatest things you can do.
79.
Make a
difference.
80.
Help people. Helping others not only benefits them, it benefits
you.
81.
Make our world a better place to live
in. Plant trees. Follow rules. Be a good citizen and a role model to others.
82.
Be Respectful. Be respectful of
others' time, thoughts, ideas, lifestyles, feelings, work, and everything else. Always
Be Polite.
83.
Become a Better
Communicator. Study English language as the standard international language
used. Learn
to speak clearly and concisely.
84.
Acknowledge people. Give
others genuine praise.
85.
Surprise People
and love ones. One of
the most rewarding feelings in the world are knowing that you made someone
smile. Surprise the special someone in your life by doing something out of the
ordinary for them!
86.
Start a
Business. It
will give you a lot of learning opportunities. It will teach a person about
marketing skills, problem solving and sense of responsibility.
87.
Find a role model. Role models
are a great source of inspiration, and their stories can make us feel strong
when times get tough. Having a role model gives
us a concrete image of who we want to become. Practice good etiquette.
88.
Focus on people, not things.
89.
Be Curious.
90.
Pick Yourself. Whatever it is that you
want to accomplish or achieve, stop waiting for somebody else to pick you.
91.
Travel the
World. When you travel you gain new experiences, you learn about different
cultures, and you get to sample different lifestyles. Life is an adventure.
92.
Do not change your nature even if
someone does harm you. Do not lose your essence. Only take precautions.
93.
Be artistic. Making art is a form of
self-expression, and it can even be healing.
94.
Be Accepting of differences — be
it of people, mindsets, lifestyles, or cultures. For they add variety
and color into our lives.
95.
Yoga can help. Try this thing.
96.
Be Assertive.
97.
Master a Game or
a Sports. Mastering a game–such as chess or Go–teaches you
strategy, it teaches you to compete, and it teaches you flexibility and
adaptability while mastering a sports develops physical durability.
98.
Work on your negative traits.
99.
Respect and Honor parents. Be a better child to your parents. Make them
happy.
100.
And lastly, Aim for Excellence.
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