Life - VICTIM OR RESPONSIBLE

BE RESPONSIBLE rather than to be a VICTIM.... What is this all about? Do you understand it? Can you apply it to your life?
Many of us are facing different trials and obstacles in life. Life doesn't seems to be perfect... thus we make our own coping mechanisms... our mask! Mask that will make us believe that we are stronger and to hide all the darkness within us, it may be consciously or not...
One of our mask would be to become a victim. We choose to blame others and acted like that we are always a victim. That we are kind and there are villains in our way who wants to ruin out lives. And when the times get rough between you, you acted like you were maltreated or abuse. And so all of the people will say that you were piteous and the other one is the one to be blame of. But so sad that doing this make us always making rationalization and blaming others... that we are not realistically facing our problem... That is being a VICTIM.
How about choosing to be responsible over victim?
BEING RESPONSIBLE is facing the problem and accepting that only YOU is the responsible in your life... NO ONE ELSE...  You will stop blaming others because you feel and believe that you are the one who is responsible in everything happens in you. And in that, you are facing the problem and start thinking and looking for a solution. You stop crying because you are no longer a VICTIM... but you start to stand out because YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE!
Choose now... be a victim or to be a responsible.